Every relationship falls apart for different reasons.
We Help You Build
Your Unique Blueprint
to Reconciliation
Not every relationship needs the same approach.
NO ONE SOLUTION SHOULD BE THE SAME.
It's free. 30 minutes to understand what your
relationship may actually need next.
Every relationship falls apart for different reasons.
We Help You Build
Your Unique Blueprint
to Reconciliation
Not every relationship needs the same approach.
NO ONE SOLUTION SHOULD BE THE SAME.
It's free. Take 30 minutes to understand what your
relationship may actually need next.
Let us give you the customized key to overcome
" My Wife is Stonewalling Me She Doesn't Even Want to Try My Wife Has Moved Out It's Too Little, Too Late Nothing I Tried Has Worked She's Met Someone Else She Doesn't Trust My Changes There's Nothing I Can Do to Change I Hate You, Please Go Away "
Why I Started This…
We Found Our Way Back,
the Hard Way, So You
Don't Have To
Over 10 years ago, I nearly lost the relationship of my dreams and the woman I cherished so much.
She had moved to another city, wanted to see other people, and had completely stonewalled & blocked me.
I spent more than $38,000 reading the same books, hiring the same coaches, and working with the best therapists.
And nothing worked. In fact, things got WORSE!
What changed everything was realizing that every relationship breaks down for different reasons.
That showed me the path forward could not be generic.
Once I stopped following broad advice from people who did not understand the real nuance of our situation, and who had never been in my shoes...
Everything changed for us.
More than 10 years later, we are happier than we have ever been.
We're expecting our first daughter.
And we're growing stronger & more fulfilled by the day.
Since then, I have used the same methodology to help more than 3,500 men who all began this journey alone.
And I'd like to show you how to build your own customized blueprint to a thriving relationship.
If You're Thinking
"It's Too Little, Too Late for Me"
Hear from thousands who came from situations that felt too far gone...
E.G. SEPARATION – DIVORCED – COLD & INDIFFERENT WIFE
How Typical
Generic
Solutions Work
Generic & broad advice treats different
relationship problems like they are the same.
Sometimes it works,
but often only by accident.
But "accidental success" does not
usually work the next time.
It gives you solutions before understanding
what makes your situation unique
When the fit is wrong, even "well-intentioned"
efforts can make things worse
This is why you have tried a lot and are feeling
exhausted, but still feel no closer to reconciliation.
How Our
Tailored
Solution Works
We start with the understanding that every
relationship breaks down for different reasons.
Progress feels more deliberate,
rather than "accidental."
And "deliberate success" is more focused,
repeatable and easier to sustain.
We'll understand your unique situation
before giving you any tailored solutions.
When the fit is right, any well-intentioned effort
starts helping instead of hurting.
Precision helps move things in the right direction, with less effort needed from you.
But What If...
"I've Already Tried Something Similar"
Many of our clients have spent $10,000+ on
THERAPY, COACHING, BOOKS AND ADVICE THAT SOUNDED RIGHT
but did not actually fit their relationship.
Why Reconciliation
Can Feel So Exhausting
Would This Work If
There Are Affairs or She's Met Someone Else?
Hear from some of the thousands of clients who came to us facing AFFAIRS, HAVING MET ANOTHER PERSON, and when his wife had already made it clear that "I'VE MOVED ON."
Will This Still Work If My
Situation Is Complicated?
If you are…
- In a long-term marriage or committed relationship (2+ years) with a lot at stake (kids, shared businesses, etc.).
- Facing breakups, separation, divorce, or the possibility of a major disruption to your family unit.
- A highly caring, ambitious, high-effort man who is not looking for another quick fix.
- In a situation where walking away is not a simple option.
- Someone who may have already tried therapy, coaching, books, or advice that did not fit.
- Tired of generic approaches & looking for deeper coaching tailored to your specific relationship dynamic.
Just Give Me 30 Minutes
Let Me Show You
What We Can Do
How Would This Work If
I'm Blocked, She's Moved Out, or Stonewalled?
This is all the more reason you need an extremely tailored approach.
You do not have infinite chances. Every move you make needs to be precise.
We Like to Think
We've Seen It All
But We Are Open to
Be Proven Wrong
We don't make empty promises about 8-week timelines.
We focus on stacking proof that can't be faked.
Our clients often begin in situations many consider
highly complex cases that others have turned away.
We create change that stands the test of time,
not just back one week and gone the next.
Built by Real-World Experience
Not Just Theory
You do not need another armchair expert.
Anyone can study restoration from the outside. But it takes someone who started as a client and actually achieved results to understand the nuances from the inside out.
All of us were where you are. You will not be left to figure this out alone.
Every member of this team understands the pain, pressure, and reality of what it takes to rebuild a relationship from the inside, and we will be in your corner, mentoring you every step of the way.
The Founders
Geoffrey Setiawan
CEO/Founder
I founded RM in 2017 after decades of struggling in my own relationships. 10 years ago, my wife wanted to separate, moved to another city, completely stonewalled & blocked me. She told me “we’re just not meant for each other.”
And this was despite a lifelong obsession with studying psychology, and spending $38,000+ on therapy, coaching, books and other solutions that promised big things, but actually made things worse.
Applying my history as a data-scientist, I’ve dedicated my life to creating a curriculum for men to make the journey of creating thriving relationships less of a “mystery” or an “art” and more of a “science”.
Today, my wife & I are in the best spot we’ve ever been. We always joke that our marriage now is so much better than our “honeymoon period” ever was. We’re also expecting our first daughter together.
Since then, I have also helped 3,500+ men overcome similar problems in their relationships or marriage. I’d be honored to help you with yours!
Samantha Setiawan
Chief Marketing Officer
Hello! I am Geoffrey’s wife! In 2015, after we have dealt with our own relationship struggles, it was actually me who encouraged Geoffrey to start RM in 2017.
Why? I deeply believed that we have found something very “special” when it comes to marriages & relationships.
Having seen how this approach has massively impacted Geoffrey’s clients, but also our friends and family…
I was inspired to join Geoffrey & his team in 2025 in their cause to teach this very “customized” approach to saving relationships.
My goal is to provide a “female” perspective to everything we discuss & teach, to ensure all our advice always stays grounded & balanced.
Your Coaches
Jameson McFarland
Head Coach
I joined Geoffrey as a client back in October 28, 2021.
Back then, I found myself blindsided when my wife of 11 years announced that she wanted a divorce, and I discovered that she had already found an affair partner. I was so depressed, I lost 50 lbs in a month from the shock & panic.
Today, we probably have the best marriage of anyone I know. We’re back to continuously going on vacations together and genuinely enjoying each other’s company, a state far beyond anything we ever expected.
Because I felt such massive gratitude for how the program transformed not only my marriage, but also my entire life, this is the reason why I left my career as a Finance Director with Subaru, and decided to take the leap to join Geoffrey’s team in 2024.
Since then, I have had the privilege of being trained heavily under Geoffrey’s system, and have overseen the journey, mentorship and reconciliations of 1,200+ men & their relationships with their loved ones.
Christopher James Parker
Coach
I joined Geoffrey as a client back in August 15, 2024. When I joined, my wife said to me “I love you, but not in love with you” and from there, everything unraveled.
I did all the mistakes you can imagine — I became needy, begged for another chance, breached her privacy by checking on her constantly. I even used the kids to try to keep the relationship together.
Everything came to a head when I was admitted to a psychiatric ward due to a complete mental breakdown.
I also spent close to $10,000 and joined a well known program that promised big results, teaches “masculine frame” and “apex male” principles, the support of licensed therapists, and so on, but what was taught in that program ended up becoming the breaking point that pushed my wife to leave.
And that was when I was recommended to Geoffrey’s program. Today, I can honestly say I have a deeply aligned relationship with the partner of my dreams, and our relationship with the children also has never been better!
This is the reason why I left my 20-year career as a Senior Chief in the US Navy, and joined Geoffrey in his mission in 2025. This program has literally saved my life, and I also have made it my mission to steer people away from potentially damaging relationship advice that's out there.
Since then, I have had the privilege of being trained heavily under Geoffrey’s system and taken a few certifications in the psychology & marriage counseling space. To date, I have personally overseen the journey, mentorship and reconciliations of 200+ men & their relationships with their loved ones.
Jason Newman
Lead Diagnostics & Success Coach
I joined Geoffrey first as a client after fighting for my own marriage over 6 years ago. That came after three failed coaching programs and the realization that most of what was out there did not actually fit what I was facing.
Like many men, I tried to solve it through more effort, more logic, more explaining, and trying to force reconciliation before I understood what was actually happening underneath it all.
I know firsthand what it feels like to care deeply, work hard, and still feel like nothing you are doing is landing the way you hoped, while the needle keeps moving in the wrong direction.
What changed everything for me was Geoffrey teaching me how to read the relationship more accurately. Not just through effort and tactics, but by understanding the pattern, what our situation actually needed, and why so much of what I had tried before was missing the mark.
That shift helped save my marriage, and more than 5 years later, we are still thriving.
Over the last 5+ years on the team, I have spent thousands of hours helping 2,700+ men make sense of what is actually happening in their situation.
Through training and experience, my role has grown into diagnosis, pattern recognition, and helping men see the path that fits their relationship instead of relying on broad advice that often does more harm than good.
Bacary Mundoba
Coach / Creative Director
I joined Geoffrey as a client back in May 2024. At the time, my relationship had broken down and we were stuck in limbo. Neither of us really knew what we wanted, and everything felt pretty stressful and uncertain. It felt like a bitter end was the only choice.
To make matters worse, I was one of those people who initially tried some of the “red-pill,” “No More Mr. Nice Guy,” Alpha Male, and Masculine Frame approaches, which made my personal situation even worse!
In fact, I was also one of those people who initially ignored Geoffrey’s videos for 6 months because I thought “What the heck does this young punk know about relationships anyway?” I never took him seriously.
But once I created the 5 pillars that Geoffrey taught, it has changed everything for me romantically. Communication now flows very naturally, things are much more harmonious, and we’ve become the great role models for our children we’ve always wanted to be.
I ended up joining the team in March 2025 because I saw how powerful this tailored process actually is, not just for my relationship, but literally for every single part of my life.
Since then, I have had the privilege of being trained heavily under Geoffrey’s system, and have overseen the journey, mentorship and reconciliations of 540+ men & their relationships with their loved ones.